"You A***ole. Go f*ck yourself"
Pathetic service. Senseless driving. Stupid customer. Angry friend.
All of them deserves such response.
Wait..Do they? or rather do you deserve to give this as a response?
I am not talking here of words but of our angry responses.
Yes, we are living in the world where reality shows are in plenty but information is limited.
Where ego is in abundance but humbleness is limited.
The world where "Being human" is a brand rather than a philosophy.
I know, you have a lousy work or fake relations or crazy deadlines and lot of personal dissatisfaction.
Still ANGER is not excusable.
What? You said its natural?
Yes the customer was stupid but he pays you. What if he has lot of friends who happen to be your paid customers?
Yes the remarks of the friend were not justified but what about those good times he or she provided you? those sensible advice?
Don't just consider the immediate consequences but consider the ripple effects.
What if you patiently listened to the customer and helped him in taking informed decision and win his heart.
Or better what if you could have FAQ section dedicated to such "stupid" questions?
Your feelings are choices: You choose anger over calm; you choose fear over courage; you choose misery over joy. Which choice is more productive?
"You A***ole. Go f*ck yourself" or Look. Smile and get going - Choice is yours